POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Monday, September 6, 2010
Carilah pasangan sendiri....
Bukan mustahil, kita sering mendapatkan kesulitan dalam memilih pasangan hidup. Karena kita meminta hal-hal yg sesuai dengan keinginan kita sendiri. Pada saat perkawinan sangat jauh dari pikiran kita, dan kita masih sangat menikmati hidup sendiri sehingga kita berpikir tidak perlu ada yang namanya Perkawinan. Tetapi ketika kita mulai serius memikirkan Masalah Perkawinan, mulailah pikiran kita merancang gambaran tentang pasangan yang bagaimana yang kita inginkan.
Kita pasti membayangkan pasangan hidup idaman, kulitnya harus begini, rambutnya harus begitu. Pada saat itu kita tidak tahu bahwa Tuhanlah yang akan mengaturnya. Kita pasti berpikir keinginan kita akan membuat kita bahagia.
Ternyata yang terjadi tidak lah demikian. Banyak yang mendapatkan jauh dari apa yang mereka bayangkan sebelumnya. Yang ingin disampaikan disini bahwa seseorang tidak bisa menjamin perkawinan itu bahagia dari apa yang ia bayangkan.
Kita pasti membayangkan pasangan hidup idaman, kulitnya harus begini, rambutnya harus begitu. Pada saat itu kita tidak tahu bahwa Tuhanlah yang akan mengaturnya. Kita pasti berpikir keinginan kita akan membuat kita bahagia.
Ternyata yang terjadi tidak lah demikian. Banyak yang mendapatkan jauh dari apa yang mereka bayangkan sebelumnya. Yang ingin disampaikan disini bahwa seseorang tidak bisa menjamin perkawinan itu bahagia dari apa yang ia bayangkan.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Cinta sejati daripada seorang isteri...
Saya ada mau share satu cerita...Cerita on base true story kalau saya tidak silap lah...Cerita ini saya telah dicritakan oleh cikgu saya time saya darjah 4 kalau saya tidak silap...Hehehe...
Begini cerita dia...Jeng...jeng...Jeng...
Ada sepasang suami isteri yang sudah lama berkahwin...Slama ini mereka hidup bahagia dan saling mencintai antara satu sama yang lain sehinggalah sampai satu ketika yang mana terdapat perubahan sikap pada si suami. Mungkin ini disebabkan oleh stress kerja, busy, and so on. Setiap kali pulang, suami ni marah2, bad mood dan ada saja tidak kena dengan dia ni...Si isteri ni pun berasa sangat pelik melihat gelagat dan sikap suaminya yang tiba-tiba berubah. Sangat terguris hati dia tapi dia tetap tabah dan bersabar dengan suaminya. Sampailah satu masa yang mana pada waktu pagi si suami memanggil isterinya yang masih mencuci pakaian pegi ke meja makan sebab si suami ada mau cakap. Bila si isteri tiba di meja, dia ternampak ada sekeping kertas putih dan pen. Suaminya duduk bertentangan dengannya dengan raut wajah yang kurang menyenangkan. Si suami pun suruh si isteri duduk dan menerangkan tujuan dia memanggil isterinya. Berikut adalah percakapan si suami terhadap isterinya...
Begini cerita dia...Jeng...jeng...Jeng...
Ada sepasang suami isteri yang sudah lama berkahwin...Slama ini mereka hidup bahagia dan saling mencintai antara satu sama yang lain sehinggalah sampai satu ketika yang mana terdapat perubahan sikap pada si suami. Mungkin ini disebabkan oleh stress kerja, busy, and so on. Setiap kali pulang, suami ni marah2, bad mood dan ada saja tidak kena dengan dia ni...Si isteri ni pun berasa sangat pelik melihat gelagat dan sikap suaminya yang tiba-tiba berubah. Sangat terguris hati dia tapi dia tetap tabah dan bersabar dengan suaminya. Sampailah satu masa yang mana pada waktu pagi si suami memanggil isterinya yang masih mencuci pakaian pegi ke meja makan sebab si suami ada mau cakap. Bila si isteri tiba di meja, dia ternampak ada sekeping kertas putih dan pen. Suaminya duduk bertentangan dengannya dengan raut wajah yang kurang menyenangkan. Si suami pun suruh si isteri duduk dan menerangkan tujuan dia memanggil isterinya. Berikut adalah percakapan si suami terhadap isterinya...
LOVE
Love comes in many colors, giving a sky to all its emotions. From happy
moments to tearful thoughts, love conquers all. It is one emotion that shines in
all eyes for all ages.
True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about but few have seen.
Love is the master key which opens the gates of happiness.
Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.
Love makes everything lovely.
Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination.
Love is friendship caught on fire.
True love will never fade unless it was all a lie.
Love teaches even asses to dance.
moments to tearful thoughts, love conquers all. It is one emotion that shines in
all eyes for all ages.
True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about but few have seen.
Love is the master key which opens the gates of happiness.
Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another.
Love makes everything lovely.
Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination.
Love is friendship caught on fire.
True love will never fade unless it was all a lie.
Love teaches even asses to dance.
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Listen
O my God,
Your love as gone before me,
And it has grown with me,
And it is an abyss whose depths I cannot fathom…
(St. Therese of Lisieux)
LISTEN! GOD IS SPEAKING TO YOU
(Here are variety of scripture texts that speak of God’s love. In each is a blank space for your name.
After quieting yourself and turning your attention to God, begin to pray one of these verses softly, aloud if possible, inserting your name in the blank space.
Hear God say the words to you personally. Receive the love that God is giving you.)
“I have loved you …… with an everlasting love, so I am constant in my affection for you.” (Jer. 31:3)
“I am holding you by the right hand, ……, I tell you. ‘Do not be afraid, I will help you.’” (Is. 41:13)
“……, before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” (Jer. 1:5)
“I have called you by name, …… and you are mine.” (Is. 43:1)
“Does a woman forget her baby at the breast, or fail to cherish the son of her womb? Yet even if these forget, I will never forget you,……” (Is.49:15)
“As the Father has loved me, so I have you, ……” (Jn. 15:9)
“You are precious in my eyes, ……, you are honoured and I love you.” (Is.43:4)
“See, ……, I have branded you on the palm of my hands.” (Is.49:16)
“I am with you to save you, ……” (Jer. 30:11)
“You do not choose Me, ……, no, I choose you.” (Jn. 15:16)
“Come to Me, all you …… that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you …… rest.” (Mt. 11:28)
“Take my yoke upon you, ……, and learn from Me: for I am gentle and humble of heart, …… and you will find rest for your souls.” (Mt. 11:29)
“Let anyone who is thirsty come to Me, and let the one …… who believes in Me drink. Now, He said this about the Spirit, which believers in Him were to receive.” (Jn. 7:37-39)
RESPONE
(When you have listened to God telling you His love for you through the words of scripture and pondered over the great love of God to you and your heart is overflowing with gratitude and love for God, you will want to respond to God by telling Him how much you love Him too.
You can do so either using the words that overflow from your heart or use the following)
O my God, how can I thank you for your great love for me?
I love you with all my heart, and want to love You more and more.
Fill my heart with love of You.
I believe in Your love for me.
I hope and place all my trust in You.
You are so good! Help me to be a better person and to be more like You.
I surrender myself to You. Make me more and more like You.
Since You want me to love my neighbor, fill my heart with love for my neighbor.
Help me to be meek and gentle like Jesus.
Make me compassionate as You, Father.
Your love as gone before me,
And it has grown with me,
And it is an abyss whose depths I cannot fathom…
(St. Therese of Lisieux)
LISTEN! GOD IS SPEAKING TO YOU
(Here are variety of scripture texts that speak of God’s love. In each is a blank space for your name.
After quieting yourself and turning your attention to God, begin to pray one of these verses softly, aloud if possible, inserting your name in the blank space.
Hear God say the words to you personally. Receive the love that God is giving you.)
“I have loved you …… with an everlasting love, so I am constant in my affection for you.” (Jer. 31:3)
“I am holding you by the right hand, ……, I tell you. ‘Do not be afraid, I will help you.’” (Is. 41:13)
“……, before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” (Jer. 1:5)
“I have called you by name, …… and you are mine.” (Is. 43:1)
“Does a woman forget her baby at the breast, or fail to cherish the son of her womb? Yet even if these forget, I will never forget you,……” (Is.49:15)
“As the Father has loved me, so I have you, ……” (Jn. 15:9)
“You are precious in my eyes, ……, you are honoured and I love you.” (Is.43:4)
“See, ……, I have branded you on the palm of my hands.” (Is.49:16)
“I am with you to save you, ……” (Jer. 30:11)
“You do not choose Me, ……, no, I choose you.” (Jn. 15:16)
“Come to Me, all you …… that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you …… rest.” (Mt. 11:28)
“Take my yoke upon you, ……, and learn from Me: for I am gentle and humble of heart, …… and you will find rest for your souls.” (Mt. 11:29)
“Let anyone who is thirsty come to Me, and let the one …… who believes in Me drink. Now, He said this about the Spirit, which believers in Him were to receive.” (Jn. 7:37-39)
RESPONE
(When you have listened to God telling you His love for you through the words of scripture and pondered over the great love of God to you and your heart is overflowing with gratitude and love for God, you will want to respond to God by telling Him how much you love Him too.
You can do so either using the words that overflow from your heart or use the following)
O my God, how can I thank you for your great love for me?
I love you with all my heart, and want to love You more and more.
Fill my heart with love of You.
I believe in Your love for me.
I hope and place all my trust in You.
You are so good! Help me to be a better person and to be more like You.
I surrender myself to You. Make me more and more like You.
Since You want me to love my neighbor, fill my heart with love for my neighbor.
Help me to be meek and gentle like Jesus.
Make me compassionate as You, Father.
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